12.30.2008

Senior Night



This great picture is from our Senior Night during Senior Week, I think before the Boat Dance. Shortly after Brian left us too soon, I was digging in an old box looking for something else and came across this and some other pictures. A few things stuck out to me about this picture. First, we're all actually dressed up and no one looks like a complete idiot. Second, notice where Brian is, right in the middle of it all, as always. Third, notice Craig holding up his TGIFriday's shot being a tough guy, which I can remember Brian laughing so hard about when Craig pulled it out.
Good times.

12.29.2008

"Great seats"

Three years ago to this very date Illinois played Xavier at the U.S. Bank Arena. We were fortunate to watch the game with our friends Eric Dettinger, his now wife Heidi and his brother Mike. (Pictured from left to right: Mike Dettinger, Brian McCormick, Susan McCormick, Matt McCormick, and Eric Dettinger.) We had good seats – about 12 rows from the floor near one of the baselines – and were looking forward to watching the game.

Mike Dunn, Xavier’s director of sports marketing, came up to us with about five minutes before the game started. Mike said: “Matt, do you guys want to sit on press row?” I said “hell yeah!” Brian, as usual, was running late and not yet there. I, as usual, was getting slightly anxious waiting on him and wanted to get to the sweet seats ASAP. Mike said we should be seated at least one minute to tip. Brian waltzed in at 1:03 to go. I told him about the seats. He smiled – like he expected this to happen – and only said “cool.”

All five of us walked down to the seats behind press row. We were almost late getting to our seats because Brian had to stop and say hello to the 43 people he knew. It reminded me of “Goodfella’s” where Ray Liotta (as Henry Hill) walked into the night club and had to say “hi” or “salut” to everyone and they responded in kind. It was surreal, for it seemed like the game was waiting on Brian. Right when we got to our seats the National Anthem started. We were next to XU's beat reporter, Dustin Dow from The Enquirer, various radio guys, and the WLW play by play team was literally feet away.

The last thing Mike Dunn said was “be cool about the beer, the food, and cheering. Don’t yell at the refs. Don’t stand up and try to be ‘low profile’.” Sorry, Mike we did not listen to any of your advice! At the first time out, Brian suddenly had one of the beer guys come down near the floor. He bought ten beers. As he was passing out the beers, he got a couple of food guys to come down to the floor. Brian bought multiple orders of nachos, pretzels, and pop corn. In Brian’s logic, these seats deserved a little splurging and he had “all the basic food groups covered.” Soon, we were yelling at the terrible refs, making fun of Illinois’ players, and cheering for Xavier. We had multiple beers and had a blast. Oh yeah, Xavier won 65-59.

Brian always got the greatest seats, got into exclusive places that nobody even dreamed of trying to get into, and loved being on the “VIP” list. Often, we would just get out of his way and watch in wonder at how he pulled it off.

Knowing Brian, my guess is he worked over a “scalper” pretty hard to get some “great seats down low” in Heaven.

Miss you Brian!

12.23.2008

The Legend of Beerwolf


























I'm not sure how many of you are familiar with the legend of Beerwolf, but for those of you who are I figured you might like to know that Beerwolf is alive and well, hidden in a secluded location in the mountains of East Tennessee. I first learned of Beerwolf from Brian many years ago. I'm not 100% positive about the true story behind the Beerwolf legend, but from what I do know it goes something like this....

Beerwolf was a prominent figure at a bar near Miami University. From what I recall, this was a bar that was frequented by the university's rugby team; the rivals of the nearby Xavier University. As many of you know, both Matt and Brian were members of the Xavier Rugby team and at some point during one of their tenures there they were a part of a grand scheme to snatch Beerwolf from this Miami bar and to take him back to Xavier. I am not aware of the circumstances that led to Beerwolf's capture, but I do know that he was eventually removed from his stand by sawing through his legs just above the ankles and then taken from the bar. From what I was told, Beerwolf was then transferred amongst various Xavier rugby players over the years and that the whereabouts of Beerwolf became something of a holy grail for those who knew of his lore.

Several years ago Brian asked me and my brother Justin to take Beerwolf with us down to TN. Brian had finally succeeded in kidnapping Beerwolf from an unsuspecting friend and he wanted us to take him away before someone came and snatched him away from him. Justin and I agreed and for several years now Beerwolf has lived with us in TN; first in Justin's apartment, then at my house where he now serves as the resident scarecrow for my garden.

Brian's life was filled with crazy stories like the story of Beerwolf. Many of his stories I heard second-hand, and many others I was able to experience with him. He lived such an incredible life and I'm so proud to call him my cousin...and my friend. Every time I walk past the garden or drive down my driveway and see Beerwolf out there looking over the place I can't help but stop and laugh as I think about what a great life Brian lived and how lucky I was to be a part of it. Thank you Brian...

Matt, or anyone else intimately familiar with the Beerwolf Affair, feel free to correct my story or add any comments.

Merry "Vader" Christmas!

All of the McCormick’s wish you and your family a Merry Christmas!

The Christmas season will be a tough time for us and we will especially miss Brian. This is when our fondest memories of Brian make us smile and help us get through the rough patches. I was thinking of Brian during a recent "rough patch" and remembered what he loved about Christmas. Here are his "top ten favorites":
  • Relaxing and spending time with his family
  • Gorging on foie gras (duck dip), Chick-Fil-A, and good wine
  • Going to Christmas Eve Mass
  • Watching "A Christmas Story" over and over
  • Paying Joanna Taylor $50 to drink nasty soft drinks like "corn, oyster, and butter" flavored pop and making her puke (I had nothing to do with it) on Christmas Eve
  • Clicking the Christmas tree lights on and off every time A.J. Gunnoe took a photo (everyone thought A.J.'s camera was causing the lights to flicker)
  • Spending outlandishly on gifts for his family - especially Patrick & Caroline
  • Sleeping on the family room's couch
  • Leaving his Christmas gifts with my parents for the next two to three weeks
  • Repeatedly telling everyone that "he loved them"
Please take a look at our 2005 Christmas photo on the left (click to enlarge). This was right after Caroline was born (her hair is now blond) and coincidently was the last time Brian was in our family photo. Look right above Brian's humongous Irish melon and unruly mop of hair. Look real close...on the mantle...guess what you see? That's right; a Darth Vader doll! Without our knowledge, Brian placed it on our mantle. He thought it was the coolest thing - knowing we send it out to our family, friends, and some business associates. He told me about the Vader doll right after the photographer left. Man, was I mad! I yelled at him 16 ways to Sunday and threatened him with a "severe limp." Brian just kept laughing. The more I yelled at him, the more he laughed. He never apologized. Brian kept saying, "Matt, believe me. One day you will think this is funny."

Brian, I do now...I do now.

Love you and miss you!

12.16.2008

Christmas Caroling, Brian Style

Thought this story would be good seeing we are close to Christmas. My guess is that this happend around 1996.

We were all enjoying a nice quite evening studying and cleaning, as was customary on a Friday night at 3639 Brooks Ave, when Brian had the great idea to go to all our friends houses and Christmas Carol. We all thought it was a great idea. So we loaded up in Adams brothers jeep, because for some reason that was the best option on a night when it was snowing and couldn't have been more than 20 degrees. I believe there were about 8-10 of us. The first stop was Gogul's house, probably should have been the last. We sang several old favorites and just as we were about to go into the finale we were welcomed to the Gogul household by flying bottles.

The second stop on the tour was Micah's house. Thats were everything came together thanks to Brian. He felt that we were lacking something to end our performances. He came up with a brilliant way to end each perfromance, the old Christmas favorite "Me So Horny". Once we perfected our show we took it to each of the dorms, with mixed reviews. Brockman, Husman, and Kuhlman all went well, but it took an ugly turn at the New Dorm (probably not called new dorm anymore). We were booed by several people, until of course we hit the finale. Brian sure did know how to please a crowd.

On a side note to this story, a year of so later Brian was "studying" with a nice coed he had met and while they were studying they got to talking and it turned out she had a video of our Christmas Caroling experience. She filmed us outside of Brockman.


This is one of my favorite Holiday memories. Merry Christmas Brian, Tell Jesus I said Happy Birthday.

12.02.2008

Brian, Rock Climber

Here's Brian climbing a rock mountain in Iceland right outside the Blue Lagoon. The rock mountain was actually kind of steep and Brian played the "oooh, I might slip" card more than once. He'd attribute the climbing to his cat-like reflexes and ninja-like athletic response. D'uh.

Click on the picture for the whole view.

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